After working Friday afternoon and evening, arriving home around 11:30 p.m., I started my Saturday morning work shift for Show Choir competition at 6:45. Ed arrived at 10:30 a.m. and took my place so I could take the youngest to her party. The youngest and I drove 25 miles to a neighboring large town. After stopping by Wal-Mart to pick up a last minute gift bag, we arrived at the party at 11:32...we would have only been 2 minutes late if the party had started at 11:30 like I thought...but it started at 11:00!!!! Such is my life.
My youngest already has some of the perfectionist tendencies I see in my firstborn and can really lose it over the smallest things...you should see the drama when she can't get her letters on the lined paper like she thinks her teacher wants it :( She asks me each morning on the way to school if she is going to be late and had already asked me the same question several times on the way to the party.
I really thought I had it all together Saturday!!! That's what I get for thinking!!
I will forever be grateful to the the most gracious hostess mom who immediately scooped my youngest up with kind and comforting words for both of us before my youngest could realize her mommy had not gotten the time right. The party mommy helped my youngest get right to work :):)
It takes a Mommy village sometimes :)
My youngest donned an apron with the logo of the party destination monogrammed on the front. "Kids in My Kitchen" in Hattiesburg, MS is a local and family owned business run by downhome Christian folks who love children! The children had already made the pizza dough by the time we arrived and were just beginning the rolling and patting process. The owner and her two helpers put dough in my youngest's hands and gave her gentle and encouraging individualized instruction before I could get in the door good...I can't say enough about how nice these folks are.
The other children had on chef's hats but my youngest decided that was a little much for her :)
(Notice my youngest's pointer finger on her right hand. While Christmas shopping, she closed the door of my SUV on her finger just right obviously. We are anxiously awaiting the day the fingernail finally falls off)
The birthday girl is finishing up the process of putting homemade tomato sauce on her rolled and patted pizza dough.
Getting the party time wrong sounds like something I would do! It is hard being a mother and keeping everything all together......I cannot imagine how you do it and work outside the home too.
ReplyDeleteI read your earlier post about your firstborn, her appts., her anxiety.....I will pray for both of you. I have a child with anxiety issues, and until we got it under control with medication, I thought I would lose MY mind! long story!
Have a good week!